try this:
select c.relname, l.*
from pg_class c, pg_locks l
where c.relfilenode = l.relation;
this gives you something like
relname | relation | database | transaction | pid | mode | granted
-------------+----------+----------+-------------+-------+-----------------+---------
pg_locks | 16759 | 8992864 | | 18220 | AccessShareLock | t
armor | 8994951 | 8992864 | | 7309 | AccessShareLock | t
pg_class | 1259 | 8992864 | | 18220 | AccessShareLock | t
armor_v | 8994977 | 8992864 | | 7309 | AccessShareLock | t
items | 8994975 | 8992864 | | 7309 | AccessShareLock | t
armor_types | 8994628 | 8992864 | | 7309 | AccessShareLock | t
look for locks that haven't been granted, and see what has a granted lock on that relation.