I can help :)
I've been crying ever since Acornhosting was shut down.
My new virtual host occasionally kills my Aolserver process because it is taking up too much memory. Somehow, I didn't see get a notification that it was down until I read your posting.
I haven't set up Daemontools to keep it running reliably yet.
It should be back online now.
It's also available via http://www.rubick.com
Jade