Assuming your changes aren't exactly the same as the core 
patches, you need to back out your changes before bringing in 
the new core. To be able to do this cleanly, those changes need 
to have been committed seperately to anything else (such as 
changes in core to support your application, which you'll want to 
keep).
What you need to do is find out which commits of which files are 
the stuff you need to back out, get CVS to produce a suitable 
patch, then apply it.
For example, you've made a bunch of changes to 
foo.tcl, some of which are bugfixes (which you 
now want to back out) and some of which are in support of your 
application (which you want to keep).
cvs log foo.tcl shows you that 
foo.tcl is at revision 1.9, and the list of commit 
messages shows that 1.4 commit is the one you want to 
remove. cvs diff -r1.4 -r1.3 foo.tcl will give you a 
patch that takes the code from 1.4 to 1.3, which if nothing since 
has touched those lines will back out whatever change you've 
made. Apply that patch, repeat for other modified files, then 
you're set to import the updated core.