I have to ask what version of AOLserver (the web server) you are using, and where did you download it from?
The BSafe error seems to indicate that you are using a very old version, which might not have support for the intermediate certs.
What you can do if you still have problems is to use a proxy program such as Pound or Stunnel to handle the SSL for you, then pass the connection on to AOLserver. This will let you use your AOLServer as installed, but allow you to have support for the latest SSL features.