Does your AOLserver config file have this setting?:
set address [ns_info address]
You might try changing that to:
set address "61.1.88.xxx"
I'm guessing that [ns_info address]
returns your machine's LAN ip 192.168.2.1 (?) rather than the internet ip 61.1.88.xxx you want AOLserver to listen to. I don't know what system setting affects what [ns_info address]
returns, but fixing the setting to "61.1.88.xxx" may be fine if your ip doesn't change frequently.